'Trying' to Quit Smoking isn't Good Enough

If there was one word I wish I could remove from the English language, it would be the word 'try'. It's one of those words that take the proverbial wind out of the sails of anything we do. Just 'trying' will not get us anywhere with most tasks and it certainly won't take us to where we want to go when quitting smoking.

Whether it is using the 'try' word when convincing yourself to quit or when talking to your friends and family, I have to warn you, don't do it. You are doing yourself a disservice and potentially setting yourself up for failure.

Don't belive me? Then consider this. Most people who aren't afraid of heights or have a particular phobia about speed can ride roller coasters. Not my wife. She won't get near them and we really can't figure out the reason why.

In any case, there have been occasions when my son and I have been able to convince her to stand in line with us and have got her to say 'I'll try.' But here's the thing; every time we get near the loading lane, she bails out and decides to wait for us at the end instead.

Her way out? She only said she would 'try'. And trying as we all know doesn't really commit you to much. The same is true of smoking. I realize that saying 'I'll try' is what everyone else says, so when you want to quit, you say the same thing. However as we know, this will only soften your efforts whether you realize it or not because you have now given yourself a way out.

Track down all the smokers you know who have attempted to quit and I think you'll be surprised to find that most of them will say that they 'tried'. And not only that if you ask if they have further plans to quit, you'll hear 'Oh sure, I'll try again.'

So what you need to do if you are to commit is remove the word 'try' completely. Use a statement like this. 'I am going to quit to better my health. For the betterment of my family. For the betterment of my finances. No exceptions.' Can you see the difference? You must state the exact reasons for why you want to quit. With no allowances for weakness or failure.

Write your commitment down - everywhere. Carry it in your purse or wallet; your coat pocket; in your car; your bathroom or anywhere else you will see it to remind yourself the reasons why you want to quit smoking. Refer to these commitments often - it will make your efforts that much more solid.

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